Sunday, October 21, 2007


So - Here is Chesie. His full name is Chester Howley. He is wonderful. Chesie is the sweetest, kindest, gentlest man. He is sexy and funny and always fun to be with. Chesie and I can sit for an hour and work - each on his own projects, and say 3 words during that time and be perfectly happy and content. Or we can do things intensely together, and just meld as a team and enjoy - and we can explore and dance and, of course, make love.

For example, right now, as I am writing this entry, Chesie is building us a new house. Our third in the past month. (Chesie loves to build). He is totally involved and "in the zone" - I stood in front of him for minutes tonight before he realized I was there. I love it - he does what he does with total engagement - including, hehe - including - well including making love with me.

Chesie lives in Australia. Time zones are a challenge - he is 14 hours ahead of me - when i am going to bed - at 11 at night- he is hitting the begining of his afternoon - 1 pm. Chesie cuddles me when i go to bed.

When I wake up Chesie is there - sometimes at my side in bed - sometimes off building or working on his magazine (Chesie is the editor-in-chief of Dirt- a gay fashion magazine in Second Life). He is there to say good morning to me, and to hold me and wait for me to wake up.

When Chesie goes to bed (about noon or 1pm my time) I hold him in my arms, and when he wakes up (about 8 or 9 or so my time in the evening) I am there to greet him and hold him. I love it. And I love him.

We are boyfriends. We are taking it one step at a time - Chesie has moved in with me in Safe Harbour and we live together in the houses he builds. We are faithful to each other - absolutely - we have promised each other that and more. And each day my love for Chesie grows - and I tell him so. Each day i am more and more sure - that I want to be with him all the time - for all time - because - well so many because'es - but when I am with Chesie I am filled with a wonderful sense of peace - calm - love - safety - truth - and, of course, desire. I love him and he makes me feel whole and complete.

I have inserted pictures of him - and of us - here in this post. I will put up more posts very soon - things we did and do - houses - constructions - things about our life.

But this is an introduction - not a biography. So let me introduce you to Chester Howley - my man - my love - who makes me feel so right and sure.
I love you Chesie - and each day I love you more.

Thanks for loving me my wallaby - it means the world to me.


Esmiel said...

Yay! I love both you guys and its so good to see you giving each other so much happiness! Love rulez!

Kaj said...

Yay Gabe! I'm really happy you found someone to share you life. I wish you both all the happiness in the world and that you two are as happy and content as Malden and I! *hugs*

Linuxess said...

i am so so so happy for u gabe sweetie!

Anonymous said...

I read your entire blog ... wow you are such a sweet guy :) and talented too (I liked your poem!). Hope to meet you on SL when I have the chance :)